Moms Can Have It All – They Just Can't Do It All
The mom entrepreneur needs to work smarter. It’s not enough to get things done. You need to get the right things done. A very small part of what you do will have a profound impact on your family or your business. So take an inventory of everything that needs to get done and commit each day to completing the big things (often the hard things) that will make a huge impact. Instead of just tackling each workday as one large block of time, divide it into different types of work. Schedule a bit of time for phone calls, a bit of time for e-mails and a big chunk of time to get projects done.
Beware, though: When weighing the value of items, the big projects will always seem more important than doing your child’s scrapbook or getting in a workout. You need some perspective. Take out a sheet of paper and create three boxes that represent the most important parts of your life. I suggest the following:
1. Your family
2. Your work
3. YourselfYour to-do list shouldn’t be one long list. It should be separate lists for each part of your life. Then choose the top three things that would make the most difference in each category. Of course, even that will seem overwhelming and impossible to accomplish.
The trick to balancing your calendar as a mom entrepreneur is to have a strategy when planning out your day. Get three highlighters and book time for each category of your life. Set time for yourself (a workout, a walk on the beach, etc.). Set time for work (e-mails, phone calls, meetings and projects) and set time for your family (play dates, scrapbooks, etc.). Honor those times. When someone wants to set a meeting during your workout time, let them know that you’re already booked. You don’t have to tell them it’s your workout time. The truth is that every part of your life deserves attention and planning. We need to spend the most time on the things that will make a difference and the least time on trivial tasks that won’t matter a year from now.
Honoring your time also means being true to it. When you’re working, truly work. When you’re with your kids, just be with your kids. You don’t have to answer your home phone when you’re working. You don’t have to check your BlackBerry when you’re at the park with your kids. I think you’ll find relief when you set these rules for yourself. And you’ll find yourself more productive than ever before at home and at work.
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